Gladney's Guang Ming Star!

 

Xin Xin, age 7

"Xin Xin is a sweet girl who I met at the foster care station in Shanghai. She enjoys bike riding and reading. She also likes to play with Barbies and enjoys pretty clothes as well. She likes school and Art is her favorite class. She was mature for her age and answered all my questions, pausing for thought to give the best response. She also told me she liked to go into Shanghai for the peach blossom festival. When I asked her what she liked to read, she was reading a book that answered questions about why things happen, this one was about science facts. Xin Xin is a sweet, pretty girl who is anxious to learn English and find a forever family."

 

~ Pat Marcus, Pediatric Physical Therapist

Videos from Pat's visit with Xin Xin are also available!

Xin Xin enjoying the playground!

** Gladney is looking for a family for Xin Xin who has a Log-In Date (LID) with China to move forward quickly! Please contact April Uduhiri at april.uduhiri@gladney.org for more information. **

 Xin Xin is one of several great kids waiting for a forever family! For more information about Gladney's China Waiting Child program please contact Asia Program Caseworker, April Uduhiri or visit our blog for more information.

Joint Council on International Children's Services

36th Annual Child Welfare Symposium

Every year the Symposium brings together 200+ professionals who share the common goals of ensuring that children live, thrive in a permanent, safe and loving family. This year's symposium will be held in New York City, April 16-18. Gladney Center is a sponsor of this year's symposium and Gladney President and CEO Frank Garrott sits on the board of directors of the Joint Council on International Children's Services. To learn more, please visit www.jointcouncil.org.

 

Pathways Group Training

April Uduhiri, Asia Program Caseworker

Gladney Center for Adoption has a philosophy and commitment of "Families for Life" - providing supportive services to families throughout all stages of the adoption process and beyond. As the face of international adoption has changed over the past several years, Gladney's adoptive parent training has also evolved to better support and equip parents to meet the needs of their children and families. As a result, Pathways group training was implemented by Gladney's Family Services department in January 2011 for families adopting children over the age of two.

This past month I travelled from NYC to Gladney's main campus in Fort Worth, TX to participate in the two day training. Going in, my expectations for the training were already pretty high based on the positive feedback I had heard from families and staff who had previously attended Pathways. I knew I would be in for two days of good information that I hoped would enrich my work with adoptive families. What I didn't expect was that halfway through the first day, I was already blown away by the depth of knowledge and compassion of the presenters (my fellow Gladney co-workers and friends!) and I quickly found my perspective shifting from participating as a social work professional to listening from the context of my own personal life and family! The training covered many important topics, including children's "brain power", sensory needs, attachment and parenting techniques, but we also were challenged to think beyond that into our own family histories and attachment styles to know ourselves (and our triggers!) better. We were encouraged to play with "fidgets" during the presentations and actively participate in couple and group activities to experience what was being taught in a hands on manner. I think everyone who attended really appreciated hearing from been-there-done-that adoptive parents who had struggled with the unique needs of their kids and their honesty and openness really added to the depth of the training. After having gone through the two days, I can't imagine adopting a child without having this important training!

Lastly, being at the Texas campus is always a great reminder to me of the rich history that Gladney carries and of the work that so many have done over the past 125 years to bring children and families together. I am so proud to be part of an organization that supports families and serves children in need like Gladney.

One of our families adopting from China recently attended the training and wrote:

"Pathways Training was really good!! The combination of the great training along with being in the same room with people adopting from China as well as other countries made it a wonderful time. We made some friendships that I think will last a long time. Paula was an excellent teacher and so were Bethany and Heather. We left wondering how people could adopt without going through that kind of training first and felt very privileged to have been able to be a part of it. It also gave us a much bigger picture of Gladney and a greater appreciation for all that the center does."

Karen Rapp, South Carolina (adopting a 3 year old from China)

Recently in China Adoption News

- CCCWA has matched families with LIDs through August 21, 2006! Congratulations to all of the families who have received referrals.

- CCCWA has reviewed dossiers with LIDs through November 30, 2010.

- CCCWA has issued Travel Approvals for 7 Gladney families in February!

- One Gladney family travelled to China to complete their adoption in February!

Welcome home Willa!

Attention Standard Healthy Infant Program Families

In February, we mailed families in the Standard Healthy Infant Program a letter asking that they update Gladney on their desires to stay in the program to complete their adoption. With the long wait in the Standard Program, it is important that families take the time to consider/re-evaluate whether continuing with an adoption from China in this program is the best option for their family. Several families remain very committed to the Standard adoption program, while others families have chosen alternative options that are right for them. It is helpful for us to know what your family has decided so that we can communicate with the CCCWA in a timely fashion. We would not want a baby to be referred to a family who has decided to withdraw from the program. Also, included in the mailing was a letter explaining China's current Post Placement Reporting requirements. We have heard back from almost 50% of the families in this program - thank you! If you have not yet done so, please be sure to sign and mail both letters back to Gladney's New York office ASAP. If you have any questions, do not hesitate to contact your caseworker.

Guang Ming - Waiting Child Program

Di Di and her friends are waiting for a forever family!

Gladney continues to receive profiles of children through our partnership program with Shanghai Children's Home. Check our Asia Waiting Child blog for new profiles of baby girls and boys that we just received. These children are available through the Gladney Center for Adoption.

Learn more about Gladney's partnership with Shanghai Children's Home! Gladney hosted a special webinar presentation on January 19th at 7pm EST featuring Pat Marcus, pediatric physical therapist and Superkids volunteer. Pat shared about her recent trip to SCH and the wonderful kids that she met who are living at the orphanage and in foster care. The recording of this webinar can be accessed here.

Join us for one of Gladney's monthly webinars which give an overview of the China Guang Ming - Waiting Child Program and talk about children available for adoption. These webinars are normally scheduled for the 2nd Wednesday of the month at 1pm EST. Click here to register.

Five Years of Sarah!

On March 19,2007, a terrified, sobbing, tiny toddler was led to us in Guangzhou, China. Today Sarah is a warm, fiercely loving, bubbly, stubborn, soccer-playing fashionista. We are so so lucky to be her parents! Sarah was adopted through Gladney's Waiting Child program.

Above, Sarah poses on March 19, 2012 with a photo of herself in China in March 2007; makes herself a sandwich; and celebrates big brother James's birthday at a local Asian restaurant in January. "Big" sister Kathryn (just 8.5 months older) and mom Stephanie are also posing with the birthday boy.

China Heritage Tours - Adoption Papers Required for Travel

Whether you are thinking of a taking a Heritage Tour within the next year or ten years from now, it is important to know that a number of the documents received during your adoption are required for your return trip. Among the documents you will need to provide copies of are the entire Adoption Certificate Booklet and the Red Book (showing name change) for each adopted Chinese child who is travelling. If these documents do not show name change, a copy of a legal document with the name change is required. When applying for your Chinese travel visas, you will need to send your child's Chinese passport and copies of the parents' passports with the travel visas from prior trips to China. For more information about these requirements, or about planning a customized China Heritage tour for your family, please visit our website www.gladneyasia.org.

IMPORTANT TIP: If you are just returning home from your adoption trip to China, please photocopy these documents and send to Gladney for inclusion in your paper file. Then place the originals in a very safe place such as your bank safe deposit box.

 

Fisherman with his Cormorant in Yangshuo, China

Lifelong Friends and Sisters

Adopting a daughter from China in 1999 has been a huge blessing for us. Not only did we get the child we had dreamed of, but the families we traveled with have become our extended family. My daughter Georgia calls the other girls her "Chinese sisters." Luckily, a number of the families live nearby.

Georgia (right) with some of her "Chinese sisters" Jessica, Allyson and Chloe

Our most recent get together was in January. While preparing for the party, we decided we would try making dumplings with everyone, which I had only recently learned is a regular Chinese New Year tradition for families to make together! One of my daughter's babysitters (who is French) is an excellent cook and introduced us to two terrific dumpling recipes. Two of the girls' families made the dumpling dough, and brought their grandparents along to the dumpling party. We sat around the table stuffing the dough with pork and vegetable fillings. The dumplings were delicious and we hope to have started a new tradition to add to our collection of traditions. But mostly, just being with the other families is what we liked best. Being with each other gives strength to the girls and builds their lifelong relationship as friends and "sisters". Staying connected and being a part of each other's lives also creates an extended family of generations of adults, all who have watched the girls grow up.

-Pamela, Georgia and Jim Kahn

Our new tradition of making dumplings together

Frank Garrott's Blogs and Tweets about his "Event"ful trip to New York

NCFA Honored by Ringing the Opening Bell at NASDAQ

On Thursday, March 1st, Gladney President, Frank Garrott tweeted: "Will be joining a group this a.m. to ring the opening bell at the NASDAQ exchange at 9:30 EST. May be on a business channel. 10 secs of fame." The group he was referring to was a team representing the National Council For Adoption (NCFA) who were being honored at the exchange. His tweet the following day, "Want to point out that on the day I was part of a team that rung the opening bell at the NASDAQ exchange, it reached a 12-year high." Click here for an informative video link to the NASDAQ opening and an introduction of NCFA.

 

Gladney's President Among Panelists at Center for Adoption Policy Conference

On Friday, March 2nd, at the 9th Annual Center for Adoption Policy Conference, Gladney Center President and CEO, Frank Garrott, was among the featured panelists who discussed what they believed would be the most effective actions required now in international adoption policy, programs and practice. In his blog, Frank wrote about the upcoming event and his excitement about having the opportunity to speak. This year's conference held at NYU's Law School, entitled "International Adoption: The Evolving Terrain", was co-sponsored by the Center for Adoption Policy, Harvard Law School's Child Advocacy Program, and the Diane Abbey Law Center for Children and Families at New York Law School. Gladney Asia Program Staff were also in attendance.

Gongzhan Wu Honored for 15 years of Service with Gladney

On Wednesday, February 22nd, The Gladney Center honored the dedication of its staff, volunteers, and transitional care families at the 18th Annual Service Awards luncheon. Among those honored was VP and Managing Director of the Asia Program, Gongzhan Wu, who has been committed throughout his 15 years with Gladney to developing and sustaining adoption programs in various countries throughout Asia. At the luncheon, Gongzhan shared that the most rewarding part of his service with Gladney has been seeing the children grow and flourish in their families through each passing year.

Scott Brown, Gongzhan Wu, and Frank Garrott at Service Award Luncheon

Gladney's Guang Ming Star!

You You, age 7

"You You is a smart sweet boy. He was proud and confident when he told me he achieved top marks in school. He wore his bright yellow school uniform when he came to meet me. He enjoys making jokes and making all the adults laugh. Since I could not understand the jokes he drew pictures and quizzed me on what each picture was. His thumb is missing bones and his forearm is shortened but he is comfortable and confident with his body and uses his hand and arm well. He demonstrated a crane pose for me. He was comfortable with asking me why I wanted any bit of information. His favorite activities were drawing, painting and YoYo. He told me he does not like to eat too much because he worries his tummy will explode. He is really an amazing boy who demonstrated his great sense of humor and maturity and confidence well beyond his age."

~ Pat Marcus, Pediatric Physical Therapist

You You practicing his crane pose and stringing beads.

Pat and You You in Shanghai Children's Home foster care center.

Pat visited Shanghai Children's Home and met with many children, including You You this past November as part of Superkids Charity. You can hear more from Pat about her recent experience in China here.

You You is one of several great kids waiting for a forever family! For more information about Gladney's China Waiting Child program please contact Asia Program Caseworker, April Uduhiri at april.uduhiri@gladney.org for more information.

Gladney Center for Adoption 光 明 Guang Ming/Waiting Child Program The Chinese characters, Guang ("light" or "bright") and Ming ("bright", "clear") together portray the meaning of a bright future and are also used to refer to someone who is promising and who has great potential. We feel these words capture the essence of our mission at Gladney and our hopes for the children.